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Funeral home sent grieving kin necrophilia e-mail: suit

This is just dead wrong.

A grieving woman saysāœ… a BrooklynšŸ… funeral home handling arrangements for her beloved mother sent a ā€œthank youā€ message so disturbingly vile it would make Freddy Krueger cringe.

ā€œWe would like to thank you for allowing our directors to f–k the hell out of your loved one,ā€ the heinous e-mail read. ā€œThere is nothing like a dead piece of a–.ā€

Pamela Johnson, 46, is now suing Grace Funeral Chapels in Brooklyn Supreme CouršŸŽƒt, claiming the nightmarish missive came from an AOL account once used by the Cypress Hills undertaker.

It arrived on May 6, two days after shšŸ€…e first met with Grace officials to bury her 64-yšŸ¤Ŗear-old mom, and two days before the May 8 funeral.

ā€œHow do you get past that? Even the thought of someoāœ±ne violating your motherā€‰.ā€‰.ā€‰.ā€‰,ā€ Johnson told The Post, breaking down as she spoke.

The Middletown woman says sheā€™s haunted by the idea that someone might have actuallyā™” defiled the remains of her mom, Melinda Shaw.

ā€œMy thinking now is that it could havšŸ§øe happened,ā€ she said. ā€œI was supposed to look after her, to make sure she was treated fairly, to make sure she was treated properly.ā€

The funeral home director šŸ’Ÿsaid thź¦e ā€œabsolutely disgustingā€ message ā€œdidnā€™t come from here.ā€

ā€œObviously, someone hacked into ouršŸ’¦ system,ā€ Grace Funeral Chapels director Shawn King told The Post. ā€œIt didnā€™t come from anyone who works for me.ā€

King said the home has apologized to Johā™nson and her family and reported the suspected hacking to AOL.

ā€œI canā€™t just walk away from that. I canā€™t,ā€ Johnson said. ā€œI canā€™t say,ā­• ā€˜OK, Iā€™m going tšŸŒ¼o act like it didnā€™t happen.ā€™ I need answers.ā€

Johnsonā€™s mother died of a massive heart attack. The Queens mother of two had worked at Kingsboro šŸ„ƒPsychiatric Center for more than 30 years as a therapistā€™s aide.

When Johnson confronted the NošŸ—¹rth Conduit Boulevard funeral home with the jaw-dropping e-mail, she says King declared ź¦›it ā€œsabotage,ā€ and said it hadnā€™t used the AOL account in months.

Johnson had no time to choose a different funeral director and was forced to hold her motherā€™s seā–Ørvice there as planned.

Grace Funeral Chapel promised to investigate, but Johnson, who is acting as her own lawyer, says she has heard nothing since her momā€™s funeral. She is seekinšŸ’ƒg more than $85,000 in damages.

ā€œIā€™m just angry and sad, so sadšŸŒø,ā€ she said. ā€œThis woman protected me, and for me to give her to these people, and for them to do that to her, I donā€™t know. Iā€™m praying.ā€